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The Leaders Bookends

The other day I was standing in my office looking at my bookshelf.

A row of books I’ve read over the years—some more than once.

Every one of them meant something at the time.

They challenged how I think.
Pushed me to take more ownership.
Helped me see leadership a little clearer.

But what stood out to me was this:

They didn’t just give me ideas.
They’ve shaped how I show up every day.

Not just when things are going well—
but especially when I’m under pressure… when I’m frustrated… when my first instinct is to react instead of lead.

That’s when it matters most.


Your Leadership Is Built in the shadows

Most leaders don’t have a skill problem.

They have a thinking problem—especially under pressure.

Because leadership isn’t just shaped in the good moments.

It’s shaped in something smaller than that:

Your first thought in the morning.
Your last thought before bed.


Your First Thought Sets the Tone

Before your feet hit the ground, something runs through your mind.

“I’ve got a long day.”
“What’s going to go wrong?”
“I’m already behind.”

Or…

“Stay steady.”
“Handle what’s in front of me.”

That first thought matters.

Because it becomes direction.

It shapes your patience.
It carries into your conversations.
And eventually—it shows up in how you lead your team.

If your first thought is reactive, your day usually follows it.

And that’s when reactions show up later—
in your tone, your decisions, and your communication.


Your Last Thought Carries Into Tomorrow

Most leaders don’t close the day—they carry it.

Thinking about what went wrong.
What didn’t get done.
What someone said.

And it loops.

No reset. Just stress rolling into the next day.

That’s how you wake up already behind.

And when you start behind—your team feels it.

But intentional leaders close the day differently.

They ask:

  • What did I handle well?
  • Where did I react instead of lead?
  • What needs attention tomorrow?

Then they leave it there.

That’s where progress happens—
in reflection, not reaction.


This Is Where Change Starts

Most leaders try to change in the middle of the day.

When pressure is high.
When something goes wrong.
When reactions are already happening.

That’s the hardest place to lead differently.

Real change happens at the edges.

Before the day starts.
After the day ends.

If you want to lead better under pressure,
you have to start before the moment happens.


A Simple Way to Start

Tomorrow morning, before you grab your phone, decide:

How do I want to show up today?

Pick three words.

Then at night, take five minutes:

What worked?
What didn’t?
What’s one adjustment for tomorrow?

Simple. Repeatable. Effective.


Final Thought

Leadership isn’t built in big moments.

It’s built in small decisions—especially when no one sees it.

Your bookends matter.

Because how you think at the start and end of your day
is what shapes how you lead when the pressure hits.

And that’s what your team remembers.


If this is something you’re dealing with, you don’t have to figure it out on your own.

I work with leaders who feel this pressure every day—helping them shift how they think, respond, and lead in real situations.

If you’re ready to lead differently under pressure…

let’s talk

Resources:

Dare to Lead – Brene Brown

The Hammer and the Nail – The Blog

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